An old friend of mine named Lindsey recently told me about a peculiar personal experience. One of Lindsey's close relatives had found out that a previous partner was HIV positive. This relative had then been informed that it would be a good idea if he got tested as well. Lindsey and her family were supportive yet anxious and worried for their family member.
That night, Lindsey went home and told her then boyfriend (now an ex, for reasons you will come to understand in about 30 seconds) of the stressful ordeal her and her family were experiencing. Her boyfriend's response was shocking.
"Well, I don't think you should be going over there anymore. I don’t want you to catch it and than bring it home where I can catch it." Lindsey, always equipped with her razor sharp tongue; didn't miss a beat and shot right back, "Thanks for the concern, but I assure you I'm not sleeping with any of my relatives, so I think you're good."
Needless to say, they broke up shortly afterwards.
The sad truth is that these sorts of myths surrounding HIV/AIDS still exist. These myths are false, dangerous by-products of a lack of awareness and understanding. We can break down these myths by educating ourselves and others and being understanding and compassionate of those affected by HIV/AIDS.
The following are some common HIV/AIDS myths:
Myth: Only homosexual men and IV drug users can contract HIV/AIDS.
Reality: While unprotected anal sex and intravenous drug use are high risk activities, it is equally possible to contract HIV through unprotected vaginal or heterosexual anal sex. In fact, heterosexual sex is a fast-growing method of HIV transmission in Canada.1
Myth: My partner is positive, but we only practice oral sex; so we're not at risk.
Reality: Oral sex, as with any form of sexual activity, still carries a certain degree of risk. During oral sex, bodily fluids can come into contact with cuts, scratches or sores; thus heightening your chances of transmission. To stay safe, always use a condom or dental dam when engaging in oral sex.
Myth: HIV/AIDS exists, but it only really affects people in Africa.
Reality: HIV/AIDS exists here in Calgary. While HIV prevalence is higher in Sub-Saharan Africa, rates of HIV incidence have been on the rise in Alberta for the past 5 years.2
These are only a handful of the various HIV/AIDS myths and stigmas that exist in our world and while it may seem like an impossible feat, the stigma surrounding HIV/AIDS is possible to overcome. It starts by educating yourself and spreading awareness. With HIV/AIDS in Canada on the rise, a "not in my backyard" attitude is a dangerous one to have. HIV/AIDS affects everyone, but together we can work towards a change in actions and attitude.
This guest post was submitted by Ana M. Saskowski. Ana is a full-time mom and part-time student living in Sylvan Lake. Her recent attendance at AIDS Calgary Core Training had a profound impact on her life and prompted her submissions to The A Word.
Sources
1. HIV and AIDS in Canada, Surveillance Report to December 1, 2008. Public Health Agency of Canada. Retrieved June 2, 2010. http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/aids-sida/publication/survreport/2008/dec/pdf/survrepdec08.pdf
2. HIV Epidemiology in Alberta 1999 – 2008. Alberta Health and Wellness, Public Division. June 25, 2009. Retrieved June 2, 2010. http://www.aidscalgary.org/files/publications/AHW_EpiUpdate_2009.pdf
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